Our time here on Earth is a blip. A blink. A moment.

How can we spend it joyfully and wisely? Usually, it’s sharing loved experiences with our loved ones.

Speaking of loved ones, I came across a lovely set of tweets from Tariq Ismail on the levels of friendship in Arabic.

1. Zameel - someone you have a nodding acquaintance with

2. Jalees - someone you’re comfortable sitting with for a period of time

3. Sameer - you have good conversation with them

4. Nadeem - a drinking companion (just tea) that you might call when you’re free

5. Sahib - someone who’s concerned for your wellbeing

6. Rafeeq - someone you can depend upon. You’d probably go on holiday with them

7. Sadeeq - a true friend, someone who doesn’t befriend you for an ulterior motive

8. Khaleel - an intimate friend, someone whose presence makes you happy

9. Anees - someone with whom you’re really comfortable and familiar

10. Najiyy - a confidant, someone you trust deeply

11. Safiyy - your best friend, someone you’ve chosen over other friends

12. Qareen - someone who’s inseparable from you. You know how they think (and vice versa)

It was extraordinary to read how certain languages can describe intimacy so beautifully.

I pray that you have some (if not all) of these friends that fill up your cup — from Zameel to Qareen.