Difficult periods can be made better with a little comfort.

But there are times when I’ve been told: “Get over it.” Ouch. Not always simple to do. And it creates a lot of shame and doubt in your ability to overcome.

A kinder statement: “You’ll get through it.” A subtle shift that applauds the person’s strength. That even if it’s messy, confusing, or painful — you’ll make it to the other side.

Even better? “We’ll get through it.” A beautiful way to make hard moments much more bearable. When you’re in it together.