Cuts

Conflict. An area I typically shied away from my life — by being either avoidant or passive.

It’s been a long journey to recognize the power of healthy conflict. When done wrong, it can create a painful schism that pushes away. But when done right, it can be transformative — a powerful savior that pulls together.

Writer and founder Shaan Puri, shared this great tweet:

Wow. Fantastic insight. A simple heuristic to measure how conflict is truly affecting your relationships.

Shaan writes: “99% means eventually the relationship decays to zero. 101% means it gets better and better over time.”

Good to reflect on your circle: Is it death by a thousand cuts? Or does it improve gradually over time?